How do you want your next five years to be ?
do you wanna have a lot of car ? a mansion ?
do you wanna go somewhere else?do you wanna travel the world?
do you wanna get married?and have kids ?
do you wanna be  promoted in your job?
do you wanna get million dollars?


 When i was asked how do i want my next five years to be ? , i simply answer , i just wanted to be alive and continue living, i wanted to create new happiness, keep the old ones,catch my dreams and be contented on what i got  .being alive and continue living  means.basically  i wanted to get married,wear long beautiful gown,and have lots and lots of kids,i wanted to get married but most importantly i wanted to be a Wife and a Mother, i wanted to have a car,a brand new one,but its never important for me having a lot , just having one that can bring me and my family to any places we want to, i wanted to have my own house ,with a Big beautiful kitchen, and a stunning Garden ,  but never wanted to have a mansion,  rather i dreamed having a Home,.., i wanna go somewhere else with someone i love, i wanna travel the world and see breathtaking places , i never dream of being promoted in my Job , instead i wanted to have my own Business, where i dont have to be the staff , and rather be the Boss,i never dream having bank accounts or million dollars, i just need money i can spend while i am alive.


Fulfilling your dreams and being contented in your life is Happiness,


xx, karuray ligaya ♥

Sa Kamay ng Pagibig

Paano ba malalaman pag inlove ka na nga ?how do you know that this is it?how do you know when finally someone unlocked your heart?

INlove na ba ako ?

Karuray ligaya says :

You’re inlove if  :

1) the first and the last thing comes in your mind each time you go to bed and each time you wake up is him/her.

2) you are Jealous , jealous in a good way ,  you doesn’t want to see him with another girl. Everybody knows too much jealousy is one form of possessiveness, but sometimes jealousy is one good sign of being inlove.

3)you wanted to talk to him/her all day long , endless conversations , you wanted to be updated what’s happening on her life every single min. your day can never be complete without each other.

4) you are willing to do everything , without him asking for it , without her demanding for something, you have that initiative to do everything just to keep that person in your life. thats  definitely love.

5) building dreams  together with that person where you want your next ten , twenty or even the next hundred years of your life to be with that person , a day without him makes you so terrible.

6) you become a better person, when love finally arrives youll see the beauty of life. you care , you care for everything , you wanted to take care of him/her always. you just care.

7) you wanted to see him all day, you want to be with him the soonest possible time,to quote a line from a movie” when you met the person you wanted to share your life with , you’d want the rest of your life to begin immediately, because not spending the time with the one you love feels like a lifetime”

8) Happiness,you don’t know why ?, YOU ARE JUST HAPPY , when you think of him / her you suddenly smile.you caught yourself smiling with no reason at all. Just thoughts of that person can make your day oh so sweet .because indeed Love brings joy.

9) Inspiration , the one you chooses to be with you In every step of the way inspires you to be someone better than ever before, he brings out the best in you, she can make you do things you are afraid to do for the longest of time.

10) with that person ,you become someone else ,  you become a person in your parallel world , imagine becoming a cook when you’re not ? Imagine being responsible when you barely save money ?, imagine being a happy go lucky without thinking what’s right and what’s wrong - to someone mature enough to do only the right thing ! when you met that person everything changes , it’s not about being a good cook or money at all ,but the fact that you consider his/her perspective and opinions  in life that’s absolutely LOVE .

 Thers no better words to describe love ,  but as soon as you feel it , that feeling can change your life forever , fireworks, butterflies , colors , you’ll see all the things in such a wonderful way .we can never say how long it’s going to last, but we are hoping,  we want to keep the feeling for the rest of our lives.

and when you feel it , as soon as you have it , keep it ,
fall in love, fall so hard,love as deep as the sea, love like never before , love as wide as the universe,endless... infinite.

karuray ligaya ♥

Article 101 - BAKIT NGA BA MAHAL KITA ; Ngunit ...

Mahal kita , at gusto kong  ipag sigawan sa Mundo na mahal na mahal kita NGUNIT …

Ngunit, subalit, datapwat bagkus..

At ang sigaw ng mga taong litong lito , gulong gulo , at nangangailangan ng malinaw pa sa Wilkins distilled drinking water na sagot  ; BAKEETTTTTTTTTTTT !

Masyado akong inspirado , Sa dami ng kaibigan kong naghinge na ng payo, nag kwento at nag labas ng sama ng loob , tungkol sa pagkalito , pag ka gulo at pagkabaliw nila sa mga taong nagbigay ng kalituhan sa buhay nila kung bakit hanggang ngayon hindi sila mapangatawanan ng mga taong ; una ng nagsabing “Mahal Sana kita Ngunit…”

Karamihan sa mga taong nalagay na nga sa alanganin ay iisa lang ang tanong ..

“PERO BAKETT ?”

Isa isahin natin ang dahilan :

Mahal Kita Ngunit :

1) Masyado pa kong Bata para pumasok sa relasyon -> e hanggang kelan ka ba nya aantayin pag lumabas na yung card mo ng senior citizen ?

-Masyado akong matanda para sayo, you deserve someone your age –>marunong ka pa sa kanya , e ikaw nga mahal nya eh !

- Hindi pa ko ready pumasok sa relationship , Baka masaktan ka lang -> Shabu pa !, hindi mo pala kaya , pero mahal mo sya , SHABU PA !

2)  Hindi kasi tayo bagay Mayaman ka , Mahirap lang ako(Langit ka at lupa lang ako !) -> ayaw mo nun ? , hindi mo na kailangang magtrabaho package na yan oi ! o baka naman talag gusto mo lang maglaro ng langit lupa?

3) Masyado kang maganda/Gwapo para sakin -> Mas pangit ka na nga Choosy ka pa eh noh ?

4)  Strict kasi ang parents ko , saka na daw pag graduate na ko -> Pag Graduate ka na  kasal na sya !

5) Hindi ko pa kasi sya maiwan ,pero mahal na rin kita -> Ayos ah ano ka nanalo na sa lotto , gusto mo pa pati sa jueteng , ang gwapo mo ah , Utang ng Loob MAMILI KA NA !.kung hindi mo kayang mamili , magpakamatay ka na.

6) Hindi ko alam pero , this isn’t right ->  Hindi mo nga alam , tapos this isn’t right ? , gaguhan ba to ?

-) I find it so physically Awkward -> ay taray e! BIG WORD !.andami mong alam, kung insecure ka sa sarili mo wag mo sya idamay , dahil sya mahal ka lang nya  , sabi nga magpapantay din naman kayo sa kama , LOL

- I want you to be Happy->Sinabi mong mahal mo sya , nahulog sya sayo , at ngayon iiwan mo sya ,? Anung kagaguhan ang pag sasabi ng I want you to be happy , kungiiwan mo sya after all ?Billy Crawford ikaw ba  yan ?

7)  Natatakot ako baka pag sinabi ko , Mareject lang ako ->ay  walang masama sa pag tra-try ! , ikaw nga araw araw  umaasa sa Lotto , sa pag ibig pa kaya .DUWAG !..

8) Ayaw ko kasing masira ang pag kakaibigan natin -> bakit masisisra? , Lelevel up nga eh , ayaw nyo nun , may benefits na ..LOL

9) Natatakot kasi ako , baka saktan mo lang ako, Lokohin at Iwan -> well hindi natin masisisi yung iba , pero Its worth the risk , Malay mo diba mag work , EDI SAYANG !

10) Kasal pa ko sa kanya -> ay Tangina mo ! Salawahan !

- Mahal ko rin kasi sya ->  Mamatay ka na !

So what am I saying ?Maliban sa number 10, wala akong nakikitang dahilan kung bakit may mga taong hanggang ngayon , patuloy na nagpapaasa, Nagbibigay sakit ng ulo at dilemma , sa mga taong pinaibig nila , pero hindi nila kayang  pangatwanan ,kung mahal mo ang isang tao , hindi handlang  ang HITSURA , EDAD, kataasan sa buhay at kung ano ano pa , naniniwala ako na ang pag mamahal ay isang bagay na hindi naghihitay , dahil hindi mo sasayangin ang bawat oras na wala sya , at hindi ka mabubuhay ng isang araw ng wala sya , kalokohan ang pag sasabi ng mahal kita kaya , kaya kong mag hintay kahit pa sa dulo ng walang hanggang, gago e di hindi na kayo nagsama ? anu yung guniguning pagibig?, at hindi tumitingin sa kung ano pang dahilan , walang ngunit ngunit , walang bakit bakit ,Kung mahal mo ang isang tao Be Proud and say it to the world !.

At kung hindi naman , mainam lang na bigyan ng closure lahat ng bagay , para walang umaasa, at walang luluha sa huli . Tama?

Lakas ko maka article ng ganito , ako nga di makasabi ..haha

Karuray ligaya,

Inspired by :

bitterness 2013 

xoxo